This is a topic that has sort of already been covered by this blog, but I'd like to expound a bit. If you're in a relationship, or have a significant other.....
Guess what?
YOU DON'T NEED ANY MORE FRIENDS!
(of the opposite sex anyway...)
Men and women are never just friends, one is ALWAYS trying to jump the other's bones. Whether that's out in the open or not, it's what's going on...So when out of nowhere you're getting texts from a new "friend", or have a new "friend" on Facebook, it sort of makes you untrustworthy and suspicious. There's no reason you need to be new "friends" with that guy or girl, because one of you has shameful intentions. Every...EVERY...time.
Nine times out of ten, when the relationship is over…Their new "FRIEND" is their new RELATIONSHIP (or booty call).Why the hell are you giving out your phone number anyway? Are you not happy?...Leave then, don't cheat.
Nine times out of ten, when the relationship is over…Their new "FRIEND" is their new RELATIONSHIP (or booty call).Why the hell are you giving out your phone number anyway? Are you not happy?...Leave then, don't cheat.
(Man, I'm so glad we're friends...)
Prepping for your next relationship while you're still in this one is just as bad as cheating...so stop kidding yourself.
Your partner is probably great, he or she doesn't want to be the type to tell you who you can and can't be friends with...but you should also do your part to respect them, even when they say it doesn't bother them, because it secretly does - And if it doesn't, you might want to consider how much they really care about losing you. We'll cover that in a future blog.
Don't ever do ANYTHING that makes them question their trust in you. Trust (and LOVE) is literally all you need. With these two things, you and your partner can over come any trial, tackle any obstacle, stay afloat when the goin' gets rough... If you can't trust them, the relationship has an expiration date. Period.
You can't ever stop anyone from cheating. People are gonna do what they're gonna do whether or not you monitor their text messages or stand over them while they Facebook, but feeling like crap all the time is never fun. Choose someone who's going to respect you as much as you respect them.
Don't ever do ANYTHING that makes them question their trust in you. Trust (and LOVE) is literally all you need. With these two things, you and your partner can over come any trial, tackle any obstacle, stay afloat when the goin' gets rough... If you can't trust them, the relationship has an expiration date. Period.
You can't ever stop anyone from cheating. People are gonna do what they're gonna do whether or not you monitor their text messages or stand over them while they Facebook, but feeling like crap all the time is never fun. Choose someone who's going to respect you as much as you respect them.
Get a dog if you want a friend...Or make sure they don't have a penis.
- CleverAlias
